I probably spend too much time thinking

But, I have after a thought decided that I really don't even have time to date. I would love to have someone around. Someone comfortable and passionate, but when I really assess the situation I just can't right now. I have a house that needs more care than it gets. I have a son that gets enough care but deserves more. I have a job that takes more time than it pays me for. I have no time for myself. How could I have time for someone else? I keep thinking that some day it will all change. Someday I will have time to develop a good healthy warm comfortable passionate relationship but somehow the time never comes. I would love to slow down my life but have no clue how to really accomplish that.